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4 min read Thought realisation

It's not what happens, it's how you feel about it.

The one simple distinction that, when truly seen, will change your life forever 🤩

It's not what happens, it's how you feel about it.
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“Just wanted to say in my opinion this has to be one of your best, if not your absolute best, emails.” ~ Paul G.

A genuine little reminder for you today, because it’s so easy to forget:

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It’s not what happens, it’s how you feel about it.

So obvious, and yet so easily overlooked.

Taken to the extreme, the most “terrible” thing could happen to you… and yet you could be completely fine with it.

I’m not saying you will be—our conditioned responses can be pretty sticky!—I’m just pointing you to the fact that these two things, below, are not the same!

If you’ve ever been on one of my courses, or had 1:1 coaching with me, you’ll probably recognise this 💝

And I have drawn two distinct lines, with a gap between them, for very good reason.