Iām not one for New Yearās resolutionsāmade up mind-nonsense designed to calcify the ego-identityābut at the same time, itās good to have a direction to move in. Because as the old Lewis Carroll saying goes,
āIf you donāt know where you are going, any road will get you there.ā
So when this article dropped in to my RSS feed yesterday, my knee-jerk reaction was to be a bit non-plussed, but then I started playing with the idea of having three simple words to keep me on-track throughout the year.
Three words you keep visible somewhereāa post-it note on your computer or somethingāthat act as a sort of guiding light, when youāre at a decision-point. As Chris says in his post:
āThe very, very, very key word is āDecision.ā Youāre looking for words that answer questions for you. āOh, what should I do? I just got a job offer from a crazy new opportunity, but I feel so safe here at work.ā If your word is āAdventure,ā then maybe this is your year.ā
Iām going to share the three Iāve chosen with you, and Iād like you to do the exercise for yourself and pop your three in the comments below.
Word 1: āPublishā
Itās no secret that I have long been working towards getting a book out there. In fact Iāve been talking about it for literally years. And because I seem to have an allergic reaction to sitting-down-and-writing-a-book, life instead offered me a regular column in the Focus Magazine, where I get to write one chapter each month.
Sorted, yeah?
Well, no. Because although Iāve now got something like 70 of these all lined up, thereās the little matter of actually turning them into an actual book.
Which is why Iāve joined a 9 month book-publication course, that has a great track record of getting peopleās works out of their heads and into the stores.
So 2026 looks like it will be the year my book is finally published. (Ironically, thereās a weight that comes off as I type that ā itās always felt inevitable, and now Iām actually doing something concrete about it! The hardest part was making the decision to join the course.)
Word 2: āPollinateā
This was the most straightforward of my three words, conceptually, but then I made it really awkward by cottoning on to the idea that I could be clever and funny by having three āPā words (dāyou see what I did there? š).
So this one signifies growth. I launched the Daily Reminders website at the back end of last year and now itās time to get it into the hands of more people. Nice and straightforward, as a direction to go in. (Iām hoping not too straightforward for this particular word ā we shall see, by the end of the year, whether it was specific and action-focused enough.)
Word 3: āPedalā
Last year I had probably my best yearās cycling since I gave up racing, 15 or so years ago. I got stronger, I got faster and I undertook some rides that genuinely fell into the category of the much misused adjective āepic.ā
And yet, come October, I āfell off the wagonā, so to speak, and didnāt ride for practically three months! Getting the new website up and running became an 18-hour-a-day task and cycling just fell off the priorities list.
My fitness plummeted:

And while I have at least one cycling related goal in mind this year (my regular 4-day tour with the boys) rather than make this one all about outcome, Iāve clocked that the most important measure for a good-yearās-cycling is consistency.
Therefore, it doesnāt really matter what Iām doing, so long as I pedal.
How about you?
So there you are. My three words. Iāve only been using them for 24 hours or so and itās been fruitful already. Little mini decisions or procrastination-points:
Which of my three words is this fulfilling?
It took literally 10 minutes to come up with them, commit them to memory and write them out on a post it note for my computer screen.
I recommend you do the same. Nothing onerous, just a little guiding light for you; something that taps into your authentic desires for the year, and keep you on the straight and narrow.
What's important to you?
Then when youāve done it, come back here and let us know what they are, in the comments below.
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Giles
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Hereās the original article if you want to procrastinate by reading the full low down on how to choose and write out three little words š