Do you think that you've got this whole ego thing licked?
That you're pretty chill and you seldom, if ever, take things personally?
That you're quite comfortable with your spiritual evolution?
Well then, let me recommend a test of your mettle.
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Somebody bought me the board game pictured aboveโHerd Mentalityโfor Christmas (thank you)!
The premise couldn't be more simple: A question gets asked, and everybody has to guess what the most common answer will be.
The person who goes โwith the herdโ most often, wins. There are penalties for individuality.
It's hilarious. Way funnier than it sounds, because as soon as you start playing, everybody's egos come out to play.
Not โegoโ in the sense of wanting to win, or be the best, but โegoโ as in the mind's preferences. Its little hidden rules about how-life-should-be and what-other-people-should-think.
The most straightforward questions, such as:
- What's the best way to cook an egg?
- Name an animal beginning with the letter P
- What is the worst vegetable?
- Name something you take into the bath with you
โฆcause utter chaos when brought from friendsโ and familyโs Thought Systems out into the open.
I had no idea โIโ (i.e.the Giles Ego Construct ๐ฆ) felt so strongly about so many different topics, until asked to put that to one side and write down what I thought everyone else would be thinking!!
And writing down something that ego vehemently disagreed with as โmyโ answer was excruciating!! Talk about cognitive dissonance โ it was really hard!
As it was for everyone. I lost count of the number of times people were heard to say,
โNow I must be clear โ this isn't what I believe, but it's the answer that I think is probably rightโ
โฆfollowed closely by (as people read out their answers),
โWhy ON EARTH would you think THAT?!?!โ
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A truly splendid game for the family that we played repeatedly, all through the holidays, such was the hilarity it induced every time we sat down to ask the questions.
Highly recommended and such an effective way to shine a light on separate realities, playing it should come with CPD points for Innate Health practitioners!
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It brings to mind a hilarious little Hafiz poem:
TEN THOUSAND IDIOTS
It is always a danger
To aspirants
On the
Path
When they begin
To believe and
Act
As if the ten thousand idiots
Who so long ruled
And lived
Inside
Have all packed their bags
And skipped town
Or
Died.
~ Hafiz
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Giles