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4 min read Free will

“I can’t do it!”

Maybe the struggle lies more in misunderstanding, than adversity? 🧐

“I can’t do it!”
Photo by Towfiqu barbhuiya / Unsplash

I was having a coaching conversation with someone who was struggling a bit with the experience they were having. I can’t really recall any of the details of what we discussed, but I do remember there was a moment where everything seemed really hard and overwhelming for them, and they said, with some dismay,

“I can’t do it!”

And this is the problem.

We think that whatever ‘it’ is, we have to do it.

So let’s rephrase that shall we, see if we can’t get a bit more clarity on it. Here we go: