This one cut deep, because, as I've explored before, superstitious thinking isn't just not walking under ladders and black cats crossing your path – it is much more prevalent than you'd imagine:
“A way to train yourself to feel like any bad thing that happens is your fault.”
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Like I said in the previous piece, the mind is such a great pattern-matcher and meaning-maker that it'll make a connection between pretty much anything that life delivers and its own misplaced sense of agency.
Whether it lands on the side of “I did that, yay!” for something ‘good’ or “That was my fault, boo!” for something ‘bad’ is a bit of a lottery – probably baked into your conditioning by now (and certainly a function of your moment-to-moment state of mind) but seeing that it's all made up is the first step to being free of any concomitant suffering.
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Giles
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This goes into more detail about how those superstitious patterns get laid down… and how to get out from underneath them.